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This Mindset Shift Can 10x Your Income | Chris Do

Codie SanchezCodie Sanchez
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TL;DR

Most creatives significantly undercharge due to a 'positioning problem,' not a pricing one, leading them to leave money on the table despite offering high value.

Key Insights

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Charging more is more ethical than charging less because it allows for better client experiences, employee compensation, and quality resources.

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When negotiating with a boss, ask 'what would I need to do to prove I'm contributing more?' and ensure the answer is a SMART goal.

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To combat the 'neediness energy' with clients, adopt a 'with or without you' attitude, knowing your value and that you can succeed regardless of the client.

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Price bracketing, offering a range (e.g., $5,000-$10,000), encourages clients to engage in a value conversation rather than a price negotiation.

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A strong brand, whether personal or corporate, is built on differentiation, not just being 'better,' creating intangible value that commands higher prices and customer loyalty.

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Developing mastery in a skill—even initially in unappealing tasks—can lead to discovering a passion and unlocking significant income potential ('passion follows mastery').

The master of your destiny: Shifting the power dynamic with clients

Chris Do emphasizes that creatives often cede negotiation power to clients, forgetting they are the 'master of their destiny.' This stems from a 'neediness energy' that clients can detect, making them push back on prices. The solution is to adopt a 'with or without you' attitude, grounded in the confidence that you've invested the necessary effort (10,000 hours of deliberate practice) to deliver value. When you enter a negotiation knowing you will deliver more value than you charge and hold the client's goals paramount, you project an aura of confidence. This contrasts sharply with a 'thirsty' energy, which is perceived as repulsive. The conversation and negotiation must shift from a plea for work to a considered proposition of value. When stating your price, do so with conviction, as if stating your name, and pause, resisting the urge to fill the silence with concessions. This assertive posture prevents clients from sensing your desperation and pushing for lower rates.

Negotiating with employers and clients: Different strategies for different relationships

When dealing with a boss, the approach should be to ask, 'If I'd like to make more money, what would I need to do to prove to you that I'm contributing to the company?' This question should ideally elicit a specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART) goal. Regular check-ins ensure you're on track, and proactively demonstrating initiative can lead the boss to offer a raise. For client pricing, the dynamic changes. You are not beholden to the client's budget; they are seeking your expertise. The common mistake is looking for the lowest prices in the market to emulate. Instead, research what top performers in your field are charging. When presenting prices, use 'price bracketing,' offering a range (e.g., '$5,000 to $10,000'). This invites a conversation about value and scope, rather than a direct negotiation on a single figure. Alternatively, stating a higher anchor price first and then a lower one can also influence perception.

Charging more is more ethical: Funding quality and care

Do argues that charging a higher price is ethically superior to charging less. This is because increased revenue allows businesses to invest in their people and clients. Higher earnings can fund better employee compensation and benefits, foster a more supportive work environment, and provide employees with quality equipment that prioritizes ergonomics and long-term health—preventing issues like carpal tunnel syndrome often seen in the industry. For clients, higher pricing enables a superior experience, allowing the business to go the 'extra mile' without nickel-and-diming. It facilitates a relationship where meeting additional client requests becomes a pleasure rather than a burden. This model ensures both employees and clients receive a higher standard of care, making the business more sustainable and ethical in its operations.

The power of brand: It's not about being better, it's about being different

Brand is often misunderstood as a marketing or advertising function, but it's fundamentally about differentiation. In a world saturated with similar products and services, being 'better' leads to commoditization. Instead, the key is to be 'different.' This difference creates intangible value that consumers are willing to pay a premium for. People buy brands not just for the product's utility but for the story, the identity, and the sense of belonging it offers. Whether it's the perceived status of a luxury watch, the cultural cachet of a specific denim brand, or the aspirational lifestyle associated with a sportswear company, the brand narrative shapes perceived value. This narrative allows consumers to signal their identity, values, and aspirations to others. Therefore, building a strong brand requires crafting a compelling and unique story that resonates with a specific audience.

Positioning over marketing: Defining your niche attracts customers

Chris Do asserts that many businesses have a 'positioning problem,' not a marketing one. The desire for 'more leads' often distracts from the core issue: not having a clear offer or understanding the ideal client profile. Businesses often fear that by becoming more specific (e.g., focusing on a particular industry or client type), they will alienate potential customers from the broader market. However, the opposite is true. By clearly defining who you serve and what you stand for, you become highly relevant and indispensable to that specific group. This focused approach attracts customers who actively seek what you offer. Attempting to appeal to everyone results in appealing to no one. The goal is to identify a specific niche—a 'lane'—and become the go-to solution for that group, making your offering more desirable due to its specificity and perceived exclusivity.

Overcoming people-pleasing and scarcity fears: Embracing your worth

People-pleasing, often rooted in childhood experiences, can lead individuals to undervalue themselves, offer discounts, and avoid setting boundaries. This includes fearing the 'haters' and negative comments that come with asserting one's value. Do stresses the importance of becoming your 'own number one fan'—developing self-love and confidence. While constructive criticism can be valuable, personal attacks should be seen as a challenge to the commenter's own worldview, not a reflection of yours. Furthermore, scarcity and exclusivity, when applied ethically, can increase desirability. By limiting availability or offering unique opportunities, businesses can enhance their perceived value. This counterintuitive approach—restricting access and being selective—often leads to greater demand and a more committed customer base. It involves establishing clear boundaries, both with clients and personally, to protect your time, energy, and offerings.

Mastery precedes passion: Cultivating skills to unlock income and fulfillment

Contrary to the popular notion of 'passion first,' Do advocates for 'passion follows mastery.' He shares his personal journey, starting as a socially awkward introvert who built skills in content creation through sheer practice and obsession. This process, often involving deliberate effort in tasks that may not initially seem passionate, leads to discipline and, eventually, discovering a genuine passion. This mastery also creates a new 'self-story,' enabling individuals to command higher rates and achieve greater income. The idea is to focus on skill acquisition and deliberate practice, even in seemingly mundane tasks, as this process itself can unveil hidden interests and talents. By consistently improving and becoming exceptionally good at something, one not only increases earning potential but also finds deeper fulfillment by aligning their work with their natural inclinations.

Archetypes and intentional incompetence: Navigating entrepreneurship's inner landscape

Entrepreneurs often face internal obstacles stemming from their dominant 'archetypes'—patterns that can both drive success and hinder growth. For instance, the 'founder' might build what they love rather than what the market wants, while the 'closer' might hoard sales responsibilities, preventing team growth. Do relates his own journey, moving from being a 'founder' to a 'closer,' and now working to overcome the tendency to do everything himself. The antidote to the 'closer' or overly capable entrepreneur is 'intentional incompetence'—consciously choosing not to do tasks you're good at, empowering others to step up. This not only develops the team but also frees up the entrepreneur's time for the highest-leverage activities only they can perform. Understanding these archetypes and their 'dark sides' allows for self-awareness and conscious redirection, facilitating genuine business growth beyond relying solely on personal execution.

Key Takeaways for Mastering Your Income and Brand

Practical takeaways from this episode

Do This

Be the master of your destiny, not the client.
Ask your boss: 'If I'd like to make more money, what would I need to do to prove my contribution?'
Deliver more value than you charge.
Enter negotiations with a 'with or without you' energy.
State your price confidently, without a question mark.
When clients push back, agree that it's a lot of money, then ask them to articulate the problem they're solving.
Never justify your price; explain the value you provide.
Aim higher when pricing and use price bracketing (e.g., $5k-$10k, $5k-$25k).
Focus on telling a compelling story to build your brand.
Leverage scarcity and exclusivity to increase perceived value.
Develop mastery in a skill before seeking excessive pay.
Be different, not just better, to stand out in your branding.
Reframe personal limitations by focusing on your 'highest point' or desired outcome.
Embrace the idea of 'believe it till you achieve it' rather than 'fake it till you make it'.
Address positioning problems before marketing problems.
Identify your ideal client and speak directly to their needs and fears.
Develop a strong personal sense of self and be your own number one fan.
When dealing with trolls or negative feedback, seek to understand their challenge and use it for improvement.

Avoid This

Don't seed the high ground in negotiations.
Don't appear 'thirsty' or needy to clients.
Don't start negotiating your price down when there's silence.
Don't sell based on your own insecurities, but on your skills and experience.
Don't justify why your price is what it is; focus on client value.
Don't try to be everything to everyone; get specific with your ideal client.
Don't sell yourself short on price if you've developed mastery.
Don't try to be better; strive to be different in your brand identity.
Don't get stuck in the 'advice monster' of collecting too much input without making decisions.
Don't rely solely on the approval of others; build self-love.
Don't be afraid to say 'no' to clients or opportunities that don't align.
Don't let fear of haters paralyze you; use feedback for growth.
Don't imitate when you can innovate, but understand the path of imitation and iteration first.
Don't strip the soul out of your brand by being too corporate or generic.

Common Questions

When discussing with a boss, ask what specific actions or results would warrant a pay increase, framing it as a SMART goal. For clients, remember you are the prize and have more opportunities than they have solutions, so state your price confidently. Focus on the value you deliver.

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