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Leading Through Uncertainty | Mihika Bhanot | TEDxGITAM Hyderabad
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A speaker overcame stuttering, five broken legs, and the death of her father to build a successful career, proving that embracing struggle leads to resilience and growth.
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The speaker trained over 30,000 people in 9 years, transforming from someone who stuttered on their own name to a sought-after consultant.
Despite breaking the same leg five times over 8 years, the speaker continued to work, even training 100 corporate employees five days after surgery.
The speaker's father battled blood cancer for 12 years, continuing his work commitments while undergoing treatment, and his passing was a significant turning point.
The speaker identifies three key lessons for being unstoppable: "Feel the fear and do it anyway," "Nobody gets to define when you should start," and "Don't be afraid to fail."
The speaker introduces three Hindi words as guiding principles: 'Zarurat' (need), 'Junoon' (passion), and 'Jugaad' (improvisation/hack) to achieve dreams.
Leadership, according to the speaker, emerges when certainty ends, emphasizing the importance of action in the face of the unknown.
The butterfly's struggle: choosing growth over ease
The talk opens with an anecdote about a boy who cut open a butterfly cocoon to 'help' the struggling butterfly. This premature emergence resulted in a butterfly with underdeveloped wings, unable to fly. The speaker uses this story to illustrate a fundamental life choice: to struggle and grow, or to take the easy way out. She emphasizes that the natural process of struggle, like the butterfly pushing fluids to its wings, is essential for development and ability. This choice between struggle and ease is presented as black and white, and the speaker states her early realization that she would not shy away from struggle, embracing the hustle and the opportunity to create her own story.
Overcoming a stutter and embracing communication
The speaker shares a deeply personal experience of stuttering on her own name during a school speech, an event that led to significant self-consciousness. This initial embarrassment fueled her determination to work on herself, viewing self-improvement as her first project. She recognized the necessity of learning effective communication and resolved to never let that embarrassing moment define her. The impact of this personal transformation is stark: after years of dedicated work, she has trained over 30,000 people in 9 years and now consults for top executives, MNCs, schools, and startups, living her dream daily. This journey from stuttering to confident public speaking highlights the power of focused self-development.
Five broken legs and unwavering dedication
A significant hurdle in the speaker's life was a recurring injury: breaking the same leg five times over an eight-year period. Despite the intense pain and the need for conventional rest, she refused to give up. She trained in a wheelchair and continued to travel, pushing her physical and mental limits. This period taught her that she was 'not made to give up.' Eight years later, after surgery, she was advised a month of rest. However, on the fifth day post-surgery, she conducted a major corporate training session for 100 employees of a dream company. This experience solidified her belief that nothing could be a hurdle to her work, demonstrating an extraordinary level of resilience and commitment. This unwavering dedication, even in the face of severe physical setbacks, redefined her perception of what was possible.
Lessons from her father's battle with cancer
The speaker's father is presented as her ultimate role model for resilience. He battled blood cancer for 12 years, a struggle that began when she was only 13 or 14. His determination was such that he would make deals with doctors to leave the hospital temporarily for his work commitments, demonstrating an incredible work ethic even while critically ill. His passing, exactly one year prior to the talk, was devastating. The speaker found strength in her father's example, often reminding herself, "it's okay, you've survived worse," a mantra she adopted from the age of 13 when dealing with bullying and social exclusion. His dream was to see her speak at this event, a poignant reminder of the personal sacrifices and legacy he left behind. This experience underscored the importance of cherishing loved ones, as the finality of loss is profound.
Embracing uncertainty as the catalyst for leadership
The speaker challenges the audience to stand up if they've experienced failure, heartbreak, or exhaustion. The overwhelming response leads her to assert that everyone has already proven their resilience through life's 'tiny stepping stones.' She urges the audience to recognize these moments, no matter how small, as potential stepping stones for a larger picture. The analogy of the fire that melts butter also hardens steel is used to explain how the same adversity can lead to different outcomes based on one's internal response. This perspective shift is crucial for facing challenges head-on, with the conviction that bouncing back is more interesting than avoiding failure.
Three sure-fire ways to be unstoppable
The speaker outlines three core principles for achieving an 'unstoppable' mindset. First, 'Feel the fear and do it anyway,' emphasizing the importance of acting despite apprehension. Second, 'Nobody gets to define when you should start,' advocating for immediate action rather than waiting for perfect readiness. She shares that she began her journey at 13, teaching children who she felt would be less judgmental. Third, 'Don't be afraid to fail,' positioning failure not as an endpoint but as an opportunity for a 'plot twist' if the right choices are made. These three tenets form the foundation for navigating life's unpredictable path.
The guiding principles of Zarurat, Junoon, and Jugaad
Introducing three Hindi words, the speaker provides practical frameworks for achieving dreams. 'Zarurat' (need) highlights the importance of understanding the genuine necessity of a dream and pursuing it relentlessly. 'Junoon' (passion) is presented as the fuel to get up and make things happen, recognizing that many would envy the audience's current position. 'Jugaad' (improvisation/hack) is described as an innate ability to find unconventional solutions when truly passionate about a goal. The speaker shares a personal anecdote about using 'Jugaad' by altering her appearance with her mother's makeup and mascara to look older for her first corporate speech, demonstrating resourcefulness and determination.
Leadership emerges when certainty ends
The speaker concludes by defining leadership as the ability to step forward when certainty ends. It is in moments of not knowing the answer, not having a clear plan, or feeling on the verge of giving up that true leadership and innovation emerge. She encourages embracing the uncertainty, trusting that 'God's plan is always better than ours,' and to 'have fun, enjoy, and never ever give up.' This final message encapsulates the talk's theme: that challenges are inevitable, but they are also the fertile ground for personal growth, resilience, and ultimately, unstoppable success.
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In times of uncertainty, the choices you make in the chances presented are crucial. The speaker suggests embracing struggle over the easy way out, as this process builds resilience and leads to better outcomes.
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The first 'J' from Deepak Kashyap's book, meaning 'need'. It emphasizes understanding how much you truly need something to pursue your dreams.
The second 'J' from Deepak Kashyap's book, meaning 'passion'. It highlights the importance of having passion to get up and make things happen.
The third 'J' from Deepak Kashyap's book, referring to an inbuilt ability to find a way out of challenges, even unconventionally, when passionate about something.
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