Why is 'following your passion' often bad advice?

Chasing passion as constant enjoyment is a myth. Most of any endeavor involves tasks you don't love, and even enjoyable activities become mundane with overexposure. Passion is about the willingness to suffer for a larger goal.

What's the difference between 'passion' and 'purpose' (why/how)?

Passion is often misunderstood as the specific enjoyable task ('what'). True passion lies in the 'why' (purpose) and 'how' (methodology) behind your actions, which are internal and persistent, unlike external tasks that change.

Is suffering inevitable in all life paths?

Yes, suffering is a fixed cost. Whether you're an entrepreneur, employee, broke, or rich, every path involves difficulties. The key is to choose a path where the suffering is worth the reward or aligns with your purpose.

How does subjective well-being relate to external conditions?

Research suggests that after major life changes stabilize, our overall happiness returns to a baseline. Therefore, focusing on reframing your perception of difficult circumstances is more impactful than solely changing external conditions.

What role does commitment play in overcoming hardship?

Commitment to simply not stopping is crucial. Even without knowing if or when success will come, the act of continuing prevents 'failure' and keeps possibilities open. This mindset helps endure difficult periods.

Can growth itself be a passion?

Yes, if growth is your passion, it means you're willing to endure many difficult or uncomfortable things to become a better version of yourself. This willingness to suffer for growth validates the challenges you face.

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Why You Should Stop Following Your Passion

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TL;DR

Following your 'passion' is misunderstood; it's about enduring suffering for a meaningful goal, not just enjoying activities. Pursuing what you love yields only brief moments, while the bulk of your time involves supporting tasks you may not enjoy.

Key Insights

The root of the word 'passion' comes from the Latin word for suffering ('passio'), and its first usage was in the context of Jesus Christ's crucifixion story, not doing what you love.

Even when building a business around a perceived passion, 95% of the daily tasks will not be that specific passion if the business becomes successful.

Suffering is a fixed cost across all paths in life; the secret to achievement lies in doing many things you don't want to do, so it's advisable to pick paths that pay better.

Hedonistic adaptation is a real phenomenon, meaning humans habituate to positive experiences, so constant pleasure is unsustainable and not conducive to long-term growth or happiness.

A man's willingness to endure pain can triple when motivated by protecting loved ones, highlighting that a strong 'why' (your goal) is more powerful than the specific 'how' (the path).

Growth is the true passion; being willing to do many uncomfortable things for growth implies accepting suffering as the price for achieving meaningful outcomes.

The true meaning of passion is rooted in suffering, not enjoyment

The common interpretation of 'following your passion' as doing what you love is a significant misunderstanding. The word 'passion' itself derives from the Latin 'passio,' meaning suffering. Historically, its first usage referred to the 'Passion of Christ,' symbolizing intense suffering and sacrifice. This contrasts sharply with the modern, softened definition. The speaker shares an anecdote about a young entrepreneur who quit his job with high hopes, only to become disillusioned because he wasn't enjoying every single moment. This disillusionment stemmed from the misconception that passion means constant happiness, leading him to believe something was wrong with his path. The reality is that even in pursuing a passion, most of the work, potentially 95% in a successful venture, will involve tasks that are not the specific passion itself, but rather supporting activities. These moments of pure passion are often brief, even if the passion itself doesn't change—which it often will.

Passion is a fleeting moment, not a constant state

The idea of a continuous passion is a myth, largely because our capacity for enjoyment adapts. Consider loving a specific pizza; enjoying it once or twice a year is a delight, but eating it for every meal would quickly turn that enjoyment into a chore. Similarly, even the most beloved activity, if done constantly, would lose its appeal due to sheer repetition. This phenomenon, known as hedonistic adaptation, means that we get used to good things, and while the bad doesn't necessarily get better, we cease to appreciate the good as much. Therefore, the 'passion window' is either very short-lived or only truly possible for employees who perform a single, repetitive task within a larger system, or for solopreneurs who choose not to scale. For business owners, passion must be directed towards the ownership itself—the willingness to endure the hardships inherent in building and growing a company.

Suffering is a fixed cost in all life paths

Life inherently involves suffering, regardless of the path chosen. Whether pursuing entrepreneurship, remaining an employee, being broke, or being wealthy, challenges and discomforts are inevitable. People often leave one difficult situation assuming a new one will be free of hardship, only to find new forms of suffering. The speaker argues that the core issue, particularly for new entrepreneurs, is the mistaken belief that their current suffering indicates they are on the wrong path and must change it to escape pain. However, change itself breeds new forms of suffering. The key insight is that suffering is a fixed cost of living. The secret to achieving what you desire isn't avoiding suffering, but rather embracing it as a necessary component of any endeavor. This means picking the path that offers a better reward, knowing that the difficulty will be present regardless. The goal should be to reframe one's experience so that difficult things become more palatable, rather than trying to exclusively experience pleasant things.

Aiming high is logical when suffering is a given

Given that suffering is an unavoidable fixed cost, aiming for grander goals becomes the most rational choice. If two options cost the same amount of 'suffering' (like a $10 ride), and one is something you love and the other you hate, you'd naturally pick the one you love. Extending this, if three options all involve the same fundamental level of suffering—regret for inaction, difficulty in pursuit, or immense challenge for a big reward—why not aim for the most significant outcome? The fears associated with failure in ambitious pursuits are often just that: fears, and thus, forms of suffering. Delaying action while waiting for a perfect 'passion' is futile. Instead, find something of value to others, do it even though it's difficult, and understand that there is no inherently 'greener' pasture; every path has its challenges, metaphorically 'fertilized with shit.' Embracing difficulty is essential for growth, as the proverb states, 'Everything must be hard before it can be easy.'

Passion should be for the 'why' and 'how,' not just the 'what'

Instead of being passionate about the specific activity ('what'), it's more sustainable to be passionate about the underlying reasons ('why') and methods ('how') behind your work. The 'what'—whether it's carving ships, playing games, or painting—is external and subject to change, offering only fleeting moments of enjoyment. In contrast, the 'why' and 'how' are internal drivers that can persist. For instance, a desire to provide for one's family or to become a better version of oneself can fuel continuous effort. This foundational 'why' must be larger than oneself to overcome significant obstacles. Victor Frankl's idea that 'If a man has a big enough why, he can overcome almost any how' is central. This dedication to a purpose means being willing to endure immense hardship for its sake, much like soldiers fighting for loved ones rather than simply because they love combat.

The destination provides the motivation to endure the journey

While it's often said that the journey matters more than the destination, the destination can provide the critical endurance needed for the arduous journey. For example, people facing painful physical challenges, like being shocked, exhibit a vastly increased pain threshold when motivated by a desire to protect loved ones. This implies that a strong 'why' or goal is your true passion. If you love the goal enough, the difficulties of the path become secondary. Research shows that when individuals know their suffering benefits someone they care about, their tolerance for pain increases dramatically. Therefore, if you aspire to achieve significant things, expect great pain, and let your 'why' be your guiding passion, not the specific activity itself.

Embrace growth as your passion, accepting its inherent difficulties

In the context of personal and professional development, growth itself can be considered one's true passion. This means being willing to undertake numerous uncomfortable or 'miserable' tasks to achieve that growth. If you are currently experiencing suffering while pursuing something meaningful, it indicates you are on the correct path, not that something is wrong with you. The gap between your current self and the person required to overcome your challenges is the pain of growth. Growth is not a passive process; it requires active engagement with difficult situations and a willingness to endure them. The rewards of growth are inseparable from the cost, which is suffering. This perspective reframes challenges not as obstacles to be avoided, but as necessary steps in an ongoing process of becoming.

Commitment and a strong 'why' overcome hardship

The speaker recounts his own experience of sleeping on a gym floor for six months, facing extreme discomfort, financial instability, and social status loss. Despite these hardships and the lack of guarantee for success, his commitment was not to succeed by a certain date, but simply not to stop. This refusal to quit meant he could not be labeled a failure, regardless of the outcome. This perspective emphasizes that worst-case scenarios often become normalized with time. He learned that while money provides options, it doesn't fundamentally alter subjective well-being, which is largely internal. Through his immigrant grandfather's example of overcoming immense obstacles, including fleeing Nazis and re-qualifying for his profession in a new country, he internalized the idea that one must use their hands and mind effectively. The key takeaway is that suffering is an inevitable toll for any path; accepting this allows one to choose the path that leads to the most meaningful destination and purpose.

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Reframing Passion and Pursuits

Practical takeaways from this episode

Do This

Find something people value and do it, even if it's hard.

Be passionate about the 'why' and 'how' of your work, not just the 'what'.

Recognize that suffering is a fixed cost across all paths.

Reframe reality so that difficult things are seen as good, rather than only seeking good experiences.

Aim big, as aiming small still involves suffering.

Accept suffering as the price of growth and meaningful pursuits.

Commit to not stopping, as continued effort prevents defining oneself as a failure.

Focus on what you are willing to give up to maintain something important.

Avoid This

Don't equate passion with enjoying every second.

Don't let the fear of difficulty prevent you from pursuing a meaningful goal.

Don't expect passion to be a consistent feeling of intense love.

Don't mistake the 'what' (specific tasks) for the lasting 'why' or 'how' (purpose and methodology).

Don't use a lack of passion as an excuse to avoid difficulty.

Don't believe there's a path without suffering.

Don't chase happiness through external conditions alone; focus on internal reframing.

Common Questions

The word 'passion' originates from the Latin 'passio,' meaning suffering. It implies finding something you love enough that it's worth enduring hardship for, not just doing what you enjoy.

Topics

Goal Setting Mindset & Self-Improvement Business & Entrepreneurship Personal Growth Entrepreneurial Mindset

Mentioned in this video

People

Joe Rogan

Mentioned for a quote about enduring hardship: 'a man will crawl through broken glass with a smile,' emphasizing the drive associated with a strong 'why'.

Frodo Baggins

Character from 'The Lord of the Rings' whose quest to destroy the One Ring is used as an example of someone deeply passionate about their goal, willing to endure immense suffering for it.

Books

The Lord of the Rings

Mentioned through its character Frodo Baggins and his quest to destroy the One Ring, used as an analogy for deep passion and willingness to suffer for a goal.

Concepts

Chinese proverb

'Everything must be hard before it can be easy,' cited to emphasize that difficulty is a prerequisite for mastery and ease.